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31. Do I surround myself with positive, life-affirming people who want the best for me?

Yes! All my friends really encourage me in different ways, strengthening me to be more of my multifaceted self. I bet most of them don't even know how much I appreciate them. It's funny... I still feel attached to friendships I made in Shandon's Newlywed Class, even though I've hardly ever got to hang out with them! Like Kitty and Jessica... genuine people with fun spirits and good hearts. I'm blessed just to have people like that in my life.

32. Am I a positive, life-affirming person?

I hope so! I want to be. I try my best to see the beauty in everything and everyone.

33. Am I giving enough time to nurturing/replenishing myself?

I haven't in the past and it certainly is tough to keep that a priority but that's a goal of mine for 2010. :P

34. What is my secret ambition?

Hehe, I guess it won't be secret anymore! Ummm... to own a thrift store, perform in a musical, publish a children's book I wrote and illustrated.

35. What do I want to be remembered for at the end of my life?

As someone who loved not wisely but too well. :)

36. What does success mean to me?

Feeling at peace at the end of every day, knowing I gave my all, glorified God, and was a blessing somewhere somehow to someone.

37. How can I add value to the life of others?

I like noticing things most people don't pay attention to, hearing what people barely say, remembering the little things. I let others know how much they matter by giving them thoughtful gifts, small cards, unexpected somethings to remind them someone cares. And more importantly that God cares... He loves us in ways the world just can't understand. :)

38. How can I serve?

I've learned through my few stints in ministry that I will serve any way I am needed, regardless of who notices, if it's what I want to do, or even if its what I'm comfortable doing. DO WORK!

39. What can I do better than anyone else?

I don't like comparing. It starts a ball rolling in my mind I just can't stop. I do Ashley Q the best way I know how.

40. What are my top three strengths?

Hmm, that's a toughie. I guess my resourcefulness, my thoughtfulness, and my determination.

Ok, that's it for now. Obligatory Baby Shot: